Notes on feminist news & issues
Read a man’s thoughts about the destructiveness of porn.
I think he is right and I am glad to hear a man say it (although the sort of analysis does not go far enough for my taste). I had a bodyfriend (well, man-friend, friend-something) once who was like this (computer, toiletroll next to it). He did not lie about it and I thought that I may be able to live with it (I was not in love, we were good friend who were attracted to each other sort of). But I came home one day (I lived in his home for a few months) and ‘caught’ him in the act…brrrrr…so unappealing. He was not ashamed about it and simply said ‘I told you about my hobby’, ……eeew.
He was unable to have normal sex, as it turned out….it took him hours and he needed extra stimulation….it was sad really.